Before the first use
Read the controls and manual so you can start, pause, and stop with confidence.
Identify the exact device
Check the model number on the package and find its instructions. A similar-looking model may have a different charger, water rating, or set of controls. Confirm the intended use and inspect the surface and accessories before switching it on.
Practice the controls in your hand
Find power, steady speed, pattern changes and off while holding the device away from the body. Some controls use a long press. Start with the lowest steady setting and stop if you feel pain or discomfort. Knowing the off action is useful even when a device has a separate remote.
Choose the size and grip that suit you
A wand head covers a wider area. A small bullet has a smaller contact area, while a finger grip may be easier to hold. Compare reachable buttons, the weight of the handle, and whether you can pause easily. For the grip styles, see the finger vibrator comparison.
Follow the intended use
Use the device as described by the maker. A compact shape alone does not make a product suitable for internal use. For anal use, choose equipment designed for that purpose with a suitable flared base. See Planned Parenthood’s guide to sex toys for selection and cleaning guidance.